Frequently asked questions
Practical answers to the things people ask most.
Getting started
Where is FIMBY active?
Who can join?
How do I sign up?
Is FIMBY an app or a website?
Is it free?
What languages does FIMBY support?
What if I live in an SRO, a shelter, or don’t have a fixed address?
What FIMBY looks like day-to-day
Will this just be another dead app on my phone?
How is FIMBY different from Facebook groups, Buy Nothing, or Nextdoor?
How it works
What can I post?
Can someone help me use FIMBY?
How does lending work?
Isn’t lending and borrowing risky? (What “Settling in” and vouching mean)
Lending and borrowing always carry a little risk. Trusting people does, and we don’t pretend otherwise. What FIMBY does is make sure the trust isn’t blind. Before anyone can borrow an item, a neighbour who already knows them vouches for them: a simple “I know this person, they’re a good egg.” So you’re not gambling on a stranger; you’re trusting a neighbour’s judgement, and giving someone the same chance you’d hope for yourself. You risk trusting them, they trust you back. That back-and-forth is how neighbours become something more like family.
Here’s how that works in practice. When you first join FIMBY, you can use most of the platform right away: you can post asks and offers, share stories, RSVP to events, and even list items or skills. The one place we pause is borrowing items.
Before you borrow an item from a neighbour, we ask someone who already knows you, a peer or a community group rep in your neighbourhood, to vouch for you. This is just a small “I know this person.” It is not a credit check, an interview, or a background investigation. It is the kind of introduction neighbours have always made for each other.
While you are “Settling in”, the library shows you a warm banner with a “Request a vouch” button. You provide the name and email of someone you know in your neighbourhood (or a community group), they get a message asking them to vouch, and once they do, the library opens up for you.
If you do not know anyone yet, your neighbourhood moderator can introduce you to someone or vouch for you directly.
What happens if I vouch for someone and they cause a problem later?
If someone you vouched for has their library access revoked for a serious reason, we let you know privately. There is no public scoring: nobody else sees who you have vouched for or what happened. Your profile shows a small private history strip that only you can see.
If two of the people you have vouched for in the past year are revoked for serious reasons, your ability to vouch for new people is quietly paused while a moderator reviews. You can always reach out if you have questions.
The goal is care, not punishment. Vouching matters because it carries quiet weight; the weight is what makes it meaningful.
What are bulk buys?
What are the different types of events?
Can local organizations join too?
Privacy and safety
Who sees my information?
Can I block someone?
What happens if I want to leave?
How are disputes handled?
Do I need to be Christian to use FIMBY?
Is FIMBY safe for LGBTQ+ people?
Yes. FIMBY’s founder, Stephen Rathjen, is a gay man, and it took him more than twenty years to reconcile his faith with his sexuality. He is now fully affirming, and that hard-won peace is woven into the way FIMBY is built: for all neighbours. No one is asked to hide who they are in order to belong.
On his wrist Stephen wears a tattoo of a dove carrying a rainbow olive branch, a small daily reminder that peace and pride can live in the same place. As a gay and affirming person who has spent years inside the Christian community, he cares deeply about bridging divides rather than deepening them.
So whoever you are, however you love, you are welcome here exactly as you are.
About FIMBY
Who built this?
FIMBY was created by Stephen Rathjen, a neighbour who has called Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside home since 2009 and first started volunteering here back in 2007. He put down early roots at Jacob’s Well, then spent eight years as program director of Saint James Music Academy, a non-profit offering free music lessons to low-income families, and later moved into technology. Today he works as a Solution Architect at Salesforce. Since 2014 he has served on the board of Strathcona Vineyard, where he is now Board Chair.
Over those years Stephen kept noticing the same thing: neighbours, and even the churches and charities doing good work side by side, could live in close proximity and still barely know one another. Walking home from Stanley Park one day, he had what he calls “a bit of a vision”: the city floating above the city, a picture of what it could look like if neighbours actually worked together. He decided to combine his IT skills with his faith and his values, and FIMBY was born.
He took it for a test drive in early 2023, “strong-arming” a couple dozen neighbourhood friends into trying it. Remarkably, people who had lived side by side for years stepped into each other’s homes for the first time. Stephen also learned the tool was only half of it: “To be a neighbour, you have to actually make room.” Making that space in his own life was, he says, painful, and completely transformational.
FIMBY grew out of the kind of neighbouring that was already happening: shared meals, lending, prayer, checking in on one another, long before it was an app. Strathcona Vineyard, the church community Stephen is part of, provides the support and infrastructure that makes FIMBY possible.
Is FIMBY meant for crisis response or direct services?
How is FIMBY funded?
How can my neighbourhood get involved?
Didn’t find your answer? We’re real neighbours—reach out any time, or see if FIMBY has reached your block yet.